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The dichotomy of control

The single Stoic idea that does the most work.

Jun 5, 20261 min de lecturastoicism · mindset · discipline
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Up to us, or not up to us

Epictetus' starting point: some things are up to us — our judgments, intentions, desires, and actions. Others are not — the weather, other people, reputations, outcomes.

Snatch lift with an Epictetus quote on what is beyond our will
training room, same lesson — the bar only answers to what you control

Where suffering comes from

The Stoics argue that most frustration comes from trying to control the second category. Treat something not-in-your-power as if it were, and you're set up to be miserable.

The practice

Before reacting, ask one question: is this up to me? Put your effort behind your own responses and accept the rest. Marcus Aurelius put the flip side plainly: "the impediment to action advances action." The obstacle becomes the way.


Sources: Modern Stoicism; Daily Stoic; Leading Sapiens.

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